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There are two things that are the absolute high and low of the convention. And they concern one person. Inkognitoh.

She hates me. I can live with that. I certainly don't hate her. She's fun of fun and taking a great delight in the convention. And that's the high point. There is nothing about this convention that pleases me more than that she is here, because I was afraid that she missed the wonderful UnConvention last year because I turned up, and I wouldn't want anyone to deny themselves a pleasure because of me.

But I haven't been able to reconcile with her, or even to agree to disagree or something. She doesn't want me to respond to her in any way whatsoever. How can I respect that and still have anything like a workable relationship?

Last night at trivia the support team were all in uniform t-shirts, and folk were taking photographs of us. Including Inko, and I'm pretty sure that she was aiming off to one side to exclude me from the shot. ***sigh***

All the more bitter because she gave the absolute best possible quote of the convention: "I just love this - all of my imaginary friends are real!"

I guess the two things balance.

Having a wonderful time here. Too busy to give details, but I didn't get to bed until about twoish this morning. Have to be gone at oh-dark-early tomorrow, so I didn't drink the sun up, but oh, am I having fun!

Date: 2007-04-22 08:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thebiblioholic.livejournal.com
I think it is perfectly normal to not be able to have a relationship with some people. You can't expect to like and be liked (or even tolerated) by everyone in the world. I don't think attempting to force a reconciliation would be a productive thing to do. Just let it go.

There's a half-dozen or so people that routinely rub me the wrong way on the BC forums. I chose to deal with the problem by avoiding the forums, since some of them seem to pop into every thread that I read and even trying to ignore them was irritating me. On the other hand I have made a ton of good friends (online and in person) among the BC/LJ community and I cherish all those friendships.

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